Manners maketh .....

Oh dear, after re-reading this I might, to some, sound more like a grumpy old fart rather than a gorgeous forty.  There is, however a serious point to this blog.  Apart from that "this time, it's personal...".  What is it that I am hesitating about getting to the point of well it's Thank you letters.

I'm delighted to say that this year I have received more 'proper' thank you letters than I can remember.  They have been for suppers, parties, presents and it has been a complete delight to open some post that isn't a bill.

On the reverse side are those people who just expect you to mind read their 'gratitude' or expect their parents (even when teenagers) to do the thanking on their behalf.  What do you do?  Not give presents again, say something to them or their parents or just hope that suddenly they might find some manners.  My worst experience was just recently when I (with another person) gave a joint birthday present to someone.  An awful lot of work went into choosing the right present and accessories.  What happened?  Nothing... no acknowlegement until I asked if there was something wrong with the choice of gift.  Oh no it was great.  Has the present been used or even moved?  No.  It sits unused and unwanted.  It's me that feels useless.

That's enough whinging.  What I would really like to know is what manners do you think are important?  What values should we pass onto our children and grandchildren?  Do let us know, you never know the best idea may win an unwanted present!